Why people are afraid to fail?
Why people are afraid to fail?
People are afraid to fail . because they don’t want to know the full on truth about something.That they could possibly love doing.For example if someone likes to cook .And start a cooking business.And isn’t successful at selling it.It can make them feel crushed . Because they wanted to create a succesfful business within their own passion. Failure can mean that they shouldn’t pursue it because they are not seeing the results.Failure can be embarrassing especially if it’s public.Athletes have to make sure they stay on top . They have to win every game and that a lot of pressure to hav eon you’re shoulders by the whole world.
If Athletes fail in public. They will be a laughing stock.And they tend to be young people that are succesful and are doing well.And have to make sure that they don’t fail.The in tense practice that athletes have to do when it comes to practising the things that they can’t eat or even eat. And then executing . And then dealing with competitors.If someone grew up not seeing people and then becomes successful.It will be hard for them to believe that they can do it . If they don’t see examples of that .They can easily fall of .Beyonce always talked about her dad teaching her about work ethic.
Beyonce father guided her.She had a role model she could look up to and lead her in the way of the music industry. When she did the year 4 docuemntary she wasn’t afraid to fail.And she was actually embracing it and saying that they make you who you are.She had someone that would always encouraged her and believed in her.It made it easier for her to become successful.People who don’t have role models have a hard time becoming succesful because if they fail who can they go to for support.
In some industry you can’t be failing all the time continuosly.It’s not a good idea because they may not want to hire you . For example if you’re an actor and you don’t have good track record of movie that have done well in the box office.The chances of you being featured in a big movie.Is very small.They would need to have tremendous acting skills for them to be given a chance.That why many actors are always hustling in finding movies.they don’t know when they get featured in a movie .Any movie can become very successful.And it wouldn’t be a failure again because they would feel like they have a chance.
Support is everything when someone is starting something fresh and new.It can make or break you when you don’t have any.They are people who are not afraid to fail.And they turn it into a motivational speaking business.Where they talk about maybe failing college.Failing a class exam or they didn’t get into medical school.They use that to try and motivate other people.Or maybe the risk that they took.It was complete fail.And they become homeless.There are many people who enjoy watching motivational speakers talk about their failures.It encourages them to never ever give up.People don’t realise how powerful words are.
Disappointing their family and friends.Maybe there were excited to share to the people around them that they love.And it could have gone very wrong.And they could feel embarrassed by it because they failed in front of their family and friends.For example singers have to sing live . And that could be difficult when you don’t have a lot of experience.Beyonce dad always talked about letting beyonce run while singing.So that she would know how to sing live.Singing live is a skill.Not really a talent . You need to know how to control you’re nerves that doesn’t go in the way of you’re vocals.Skills that has to develop by doing things like what Beyonce dad use to do.
If someone comes from a family which is working class.This can cause a financial burden on them.Because maybe they look after a lot of family members.Some people when they become succesful they have to take care of their whole family.Macaulay culkin talked about growing up in a 1 bedroom apartment with a family of 8 . So many child stars . Start in the entertainment industry for financial reasons.For example Jeanette mcurdy started because the family that she comes from where poor.And she had to provide for the family. This is something that happens a lot more then people think.
www.teenvogue.com/story/jennette-mccurdy-memoir-icarly-interview
So many people are jealous of these child stars movie or music stars .And they have no idea hwo much work they do in a day.Miley cyrus recently opened up.About her schedule during disney.When it comes to working in Hannah montana her day would start around 5:30 until night time .And she was only 13 years old at the time.Everyday people glamorize child stars making money at a young age. Because for them it isn’t possible.And many peoplw sometimes would go into this industry.Just because they can provide them a comfortable lifetyle for themselves.There’s a lot of things that go into this industry.
Dealing with fame.They are people who deal with fame very well.And then they are people who fail at handling fame well . Because it’s too much for them.Especially for the ones that were not famous.And didn’t grow up in a famous family.It would be harder for the ones.That became an instant star.They would have to process and go to therapy especially if they weren’t mentally prepared for it.People that haven’t dealt with fame well. Have had to quit their career.Or even change careers.Because maybe somethings happened.And they were black balled from the industry
listverse.com/2023/05/04/10-child-actors-that-struggled-to-handle-the-fame/
Failure is part of human nature.It’s not always going to be perfect.However , i understand why people would have a fear of failure.Some people can afford to fail in certain things.For example if you started a blog and you invested a lot of money into it.For example maybe it was you’re saving.And you can’t afford to loose that money.Because you’re hoping for it to be a a side income for yourself.Many people online are always looking for side hustles.Because maybe having one income for themselves isn’t enough.And they need more money to support themselves.For example the child stars could have needed support for their family
